Self- actualized that is!! I was discussing this with a friend all night in my dreams and now my physiological needs are lacking (as in I want to go back to bed!!!)
Went swimming with the boys and wore my size 18 tankini!! Scary or what, kept expecting my boobs to break out every time I stood up - however, luckily, they didn't!!
DS1 even said as I walked down to the pool " is that mummy" - That was a real confidence booster. They are used to seeing me in a floor to ceiling one-piece which I'm glad to say has been sold on eBay!!
I'm also the charity shops best friend as I need to pop in again and get some 16 jeans as the 18s I bought a few weeks don't fit any more. I know this cos I was caught short in the supermarket and ran off to the loo, once inside the cubicle I yanked the jeans off without undoing them - there simpkly wasn't time!!
I nearly made a pool of myself.....

